To find your mate, do this!

[Doug Ross]

Go places you like and do things you like and see who is there that interests you. Think about or ask about what makes him/her smile? What or who grabs your attention? What conversation do you absolutely have to join with? Who dresses the way you appreciate? Carries themself with confidence? Seems open -they look at people through their eyes!

Maybe the first time you are in this person's presence you just observe. If there is a glance, you just smile. Be openly interested without leaving your own personal space. Decide if you are going to go back or want to meet this person before you leave. When you leave, smile and nod goodbye. See what happens! If the opportunity presents itself, ask, "do you come here often?"

Try reading a good book on relationships.