That He Is In Love With You
If you are currently in a relationship, you are probably looking for some signs that he is in love with you. It can be all too easy to fool yourself into believing that his actions and behavior are an indication that his feelings are as strong as yours by unconsciously misreading the signs, or convincing yourself that a specific action is more significant than it really is.
This is particularly true of the romantic gestures that many women mistakenly see as the biggest sign that he is in love with you. Instead, you should keep an eye out for the small gestures that often mean much more than being inundated with gifts and flowers. Thankfully, there are some tell-tale signs that can indicate whether he is in love with you.
He spends lots of time with you
When people are in love, they usually want to spend as much time together as possible. If he is regularly finding excuses to spend time with you (especially if he is cancelling prior arrangements with other people to do so), there is a good chance that he is serious about you.
He is in constant contact with you
If you are receiving a regular stream of text messages, emails or phone calls, it is fairly safe to say that you are at the forefront of his mind, especially if he is not simply responding to your initial messages. Calling for no particular reason so that he can hear your voice is another classic sign that he is in love with you.
He is attentive
When a man is in love, he tends to concentrate solely on you and will therefore pay far less attention to other women than he would normally do. If he hangs on your every word and barely takes his eyes away from you when you are together, this is often one of the key signs that he is in love with you. On the other hand, if his eyes are frequently scanning the room and he is constantly fidgeting while you try to hold the conversation together, you can safely assume that his feelings are unlikely to match yours.
He introduces you to his friends and family
This is one of the classic signs that he is in love with you. Introducing you to his family and friends is a strong indication that he is thinking seriously about your future together. In most cases, men do not introduce every girlfriend to their parents.
He asks for your opinions
If he regularly consults you before making a decision on what to wear or buy, he is demonstrating that he respects your opinion and wants you to feel involved in all aspects of his life.
When it comes to spotting the signs that he is in love with you, it is often the little things that reveal the most about his true feelings. Expecting gestures such as flowers and gifts on a regular basis is usually a mistake as this is often considered to be a sign that he is only interested in a short-term relationship.
Instead, look out for the far smaller gestures that demonstrate his commitment to the relationship and desire to make you happy.