Talking With Older Drivers.... Is It Time To Put The Brakes On ?

[JILL HOWE. Visiting Angels]

The growing number of older drivers and todays driving complexities has increased the concern expressed by many Americas about the safety of a loved one.

These decisions are difficult for older people to make on their own.

This guide is to help bring about the conversation and assist you when the time is right to discuss the safety of your elderly relative, loved one or friend.

More information can be obtained from your State,s Department of Motor vehicle office or website.

Q,s & A,s

What can I, as a family member or friend, do if i am concerned about the driving ability, or safety of someone older who continues to drive?

First, recognise that driving is very important as it is their primary means of getting around. Second, if there are other family members or friends available, talk with them to see if they have made some observations & discuss how you may be able to help the driver.

What can family members & friends do when a driver continues to drive against the advice of their doctor & others?

It is always best to maintain a sense of trust in your relationship, being honest & persistant. Encourage the person to make a decision to reduce or stop driving as apprropriate. Be aware that a person who loses the privilege of driving often feel lonely or anxious because they have fewer opportunities to be with friends or involved in activities. If they still will not listen to your concerns you may want to discuss the problem with their Doctor to find out if there are any medical reasons that should be reported.

If an older driver stops driving, what alternative means are available?

Most areas have alternative transportation means, many of these services you will find in your local community,

You can expect some emotional reactions, and do what you can to help them understand that they can still continue their regular activities, just with a little help from Home care providers & Transportation services.

Warning signs.

Mental: Reaction time is one of the most crucial functions to safe driving. This slows with age, but increasing distance between other cars and objects may help some older drivers.

Vision: An older person may notice difficulties focusing on objects & switching focus from near to far.The ability to see fine detail may diminish. Peripheral vision may also change with age, this is significant, since about 98% of what we see when we drive is seen first peripherally.

Hearing: Hearing loss is common among people aged 65 and older. High pitched sounds may become less audible long before low pitched ones do. Important because of sirens, horn etc are a high pitched sound. Studies show how people with hearing difficulties are more likely to be inattentive to their surroundings.

It is important to understand that even after taking steps to correct diminished eyesight or hearing, and after successfully avoiding adverse reactions to medications, an older person still may not feel comfortable behind the wheel.

Encourage them to discuss all of their issues with you, a friend or their Doctor. As a family member, you must be sensitive to this insecurity and help your Elder loved one stay safe.