Maria Brady's Blog – October 2009 Archive (4)

“Today we often hear, especially from the older generation, that good manners are dead. It’s true that some of the meaningless older formalities have vanished. It’s true that social relationships have become more informal and casual in the complex modern world. Yet there probably never has been a time when graciousness, self-discipline, and consideration for others were so badly needed, to offset the stresses and strains of present-day living.”



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Formal table settings, with their dizzying parade of utensils, can sometimes be overwhelming. If you just remember a few basic guidelines, you can demystify that confusing tangle of spoons, forks, and knives that make formal dining appear complex.



In a formal setting you will receive exactly as much silverware as you will need, arranged in precisely the right order. As each course is completed, the silverware will be removed with the plate leaving you with a clean slate all ready for… Continue

I was having lunch with the owner of a boutique linen rental company recently and, when the topic of my social etiquette tips came up, she said emphatically, "You must write about the napkin!" She then told me that quite often her linens, especially napkins, are returned in terrible condition.



As a wedding planner, I usually have a clear vantage point from which to watch people dine so, at a recent event I decided to observe the way people dined with their napkins. I watched as some… Continue

Why does waiting in line bring out the worst in some people? We spend a great deal of our time waiting in lines: at the bank, at the grocery store, at the post office, at the airport, at red lights, and scores of other places. For such a common daily occurrence, why is it that many people still cannot adhere to some simple courtesies while waiting in line?



"Wait your turn" is something we are all taught as children. It's a simple way of showing consideration for those around you…be… Continue